It truly is amazing how having Jesus as a part of one's life can totally change your life. And self sacrificing in order to have God be a larger part of one's life can be a life changer as well. I recall years ago when my family was starting out supporting the church by our talents. We all sang and played musical instruments in the church ensemble. We did not have extra income to tithe so we felt that our time and talent was out sacrifice.
  As our finances began to get better, we continued in the music ministry but bid not make any change in our monetary contribution. It was then that the parish asked all of us to reexamine our donations and consider if we could afford more. My wife and I sat down and decided, even though we were comfortable with the amount we were living on, to try a much larger amount. It was trying at first, but amazing, as we tried to keep with our own decision of the commitment, God provided. Our income changed and increased, which allowed us to easily give what we had decided. And it seemed that our lives became a little better. We seemed to be in better shape spiritually, emotionally and financially.
  Coincidence? I think not. God's plan is always at work and we are following it. We may think we are changing our lives, our direction. But we are really only following what God had already planned for each of us, regardless of what we might think.
  This lent, make an effort to reevaluate your support of your local parish, both financially and physically. Can you give more? Some say we need to give until it hurts. Well, if you are not ready to go that far, can you give until it aches? Or maybe give until you feel on the verge of uncomfortable. Be daring. Put your faith in God and try stepping on the water. You just may be surprised at how Jesus holds your hand and helps you succeed.